ALWAYS BEEN YOU

Nothing is stronger than love. Ever heard that expression "Love Conquers All”. Love is an all-powerful, all-dominating positive emotion, which defines human existence and the reality in which it is in. Without love, humanity would effectively cease to exist, becoming almost robotic and drone-like, going through life as essentially just biological machinery, devoid of feeling. Hate is more the dark side to the energies of creation---its exact polar opposite. It is devoid of anything positive and good. Passionate people lead passionate lives. It's why we love. It's also why we fight. The problem is when you go too far and say things that you can't take back. At the end of it, you hurt each other. Pain therefore exists. When it comes down to it, fighting in relationships and the benefits of why we fight are these very moments where we learn to grow.

I love the feeling of being loved, when you know things may not be perfect but it feels so right. I can not deny the fact that I & my partner have this blah blah whatever jealousy issue. I am telling you if she is mad or upset I'm usually having a hard time getting her into a good conversation. She will just reply me with the famous 2 letter words. "PAKS KO” which eventually hurts my ego and worst the 1 letter word… “K” (if that is even a word). Every time this crap happens, it's always driving me nuts. It was a bad moment for both of us. So what I usually do is divert my attention to something else. I put inspiring words in my status on my FACEBOOK wall, I do blog, and I choose to play RnB music. I tried to get my focus away from the issue to calm my self. At the end of it, I realized we have different flaws. So we both know that after all the crazy little fights we have, that love will keep us back in each others arms. Arguments and misunderstandings will always be a part of our relationship but the best part of it is that we can talk it over and try to fix things out.      

Asking why we fight is not as important as what we learn about each other in the process. I put into my mind and remember these feelings we are having and use it to fix ourselves as a couple and as an individual. I know problems like jealousy, mistrust, and even feeling taken for granted all stem from anger issues and lead to why couples fight. The sooner we can get a handle on our anger issues, the sooner we can get back to loving our relationship.

 

My one & only Daisy,

It's funny how we seem to fight so much. Sometimes I get so mad that I couldn’t stand you, but underneath my anger, I could just cry. I know that we already both know each other’s flaws, keep on holding baby! We can still make it. I have prayed for you. Thank you for coming into my life. You are worth it.

It is even funnier when you're not there... I long to feel your touch. I long to feel you with me, to see you everyday. I miss you and I need you. I think about you everyday, every hour, and every minute baby! The little fights mean nothing because you're always going to be the one I will love as always. You are the one I need madly. Nothing in this world could keep us apart. Baby, you are amazing, and don’t you forget that… I LOVE YOU!

-dyoyzee-