MOVING ON

I had a thought yesterday; it was: “The only unrequited love that truly exists is towards ourselves.” It seems, so much in our lives, we can experience this sense of love unreturned to us by those we want it from.

The most important thing is to move on and eventually we'll find somebody nice who likes us for who we are. There is no such thing as being 'the only one for you'...and now I just have to make sure that I am the only person that they want.

And this time, I’ll bear in mind that the next truly special person in my life can happen any time, any where, even if I am not looking or expecting it to happen.

It’s really easy to get bummed when someone you really like in that way, doesn’t like you back in that way. You know what I’m talking about – you desire them and they think of you only as a friend. Yeah – the friend zone.

When we love ourselves, we remember that rejection is protection. When we love ourselves we are careful whom we give our hearts to. When we love ourselves, we see every event of our lives as lessons and know that there are no shortages in this globe we are living in. I know that if it doesn’t work out with that someone I had my eye on, or that job I have really wanted, something greater is on my way.

We love ourselves and are filled with this love; it’s nearly impossible to feel unrequited love from someone else. It’s only when we have given that person power over our lives and control over our emotional well-being that we can feel unrequited love from them. Feeling unrequited love from someone is a symptom of low self-esteem and a misalignment with your power.

So, right now, even though I am feeling this way, I will take my power back and I’ll put trust in the things that the world has in store for me. I will now let go a little and see what’s next. There is no easy way. I can’t make myself fall in love this time while I am lonely. I can not make a vulnerable act that would lead to heartache in the future. This time, I’ll be wise. There is someone perfect for me out there and that person will find me as I become more and more authentic of myself.

While I am feeling the low vibrations of unrequited love, I will not go and chasing after it from other people. I’ll remain calm and STOP, I will check in within myself and be still. I will not seek out the path of trying to fill myself up from other people or substances, I know I will just make it worse. I will take care of myself as God takes care of me. Now I can stay in power and do things that nurture my heart and soul.

This is what I mean when I say, “The only unrequited love that truly exists is towards ourselves.” When we love ourselves, we are not seeking others to fill us and we are free to detach and welcome in the perfect person in the perfect time. And in the meantime, I will fill my life up with serenity and joy – so we can step into savoring the waiting, instead of dreading it. I am too lucky enough; friends are with me and so with my family. The immeasurable love lingers on with me.

I have now my power back, all the things that I used to fear has cast its shadows and flown away, YES! I am watching it going away.

Everything will be fine. I’ll end this blog with the lyrics of a song close to my heart.

TAKE MY HEART BACK:

It'll be alright
You said
Tomorrow
Don't you cry
Don't you shed a tear
When you wake up
I will still be here
When you wake up
We'll battle all your fears
And now I'll...

Take my heart back
Leave your pictures on the floor
Steal back my memories
I can't take it anymore
I've cried my eyes out
Oh,and now I face the years
The way you loved me
Vanished all the tears

Just a little more time was all we needed
Just a little time for me to see
Oh,the light that life can give you
Oh,how we get such a free
So now I'll...

Take my heart back
Leave your pictures on the floor
Steal back my memories
I can't take it anymore
I've cried my eyes out
Oh,and now I face the years
The way you loved me
Vanished all the tear

-dyoyzee-